Do you know your MAT(s)
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Mat dah Khawin - BIG NO
If a Mat is married obviously he is NOT the one for you! Trust me on this. Like really do! He may want a fling, a little extra bit of fun on the side but he is not interested in you as an exlusive partner, a companion, or wife. Eventhough Islam do allow these filthy Mat(s) to have 4 wives.
No matter how many times he tells you, he loves you more than his wife, she is a witch, and you are the one for him... HE IS LYING! He is having a little fantasy at your expense! At the other hand you must be smart and not fall for his word.
Ader lah Al-Kisah yang pernah terjadi lah kan, I got to know this girl we named her "A" is going out with "I" and "I"- is a married man with one kid. "A" loves this "I" and these two humans act as if there is nothing wrong kissing in public when all the collegues tau lah si "I" ni dah khawin.
After si "I" dah dapat balik rumah uncle ngan "A": he goes around the workplace telling people how small "A" breast is like with a description of 'macam kuih pau je' how cruel. Thats what i mean by your expense.
Do not, under any circumstances fall for this as-old-as-the-hills deception.
Think about it, do you even want to be with someone who is cheating on his wife? What does that say about his moral character? His sense of decency? His ability to be honest, truthful, committed? What does it say about his sense of family, compassion, and concern for others?
It tells you loud and clear that he is a jerk! FREAKING BIG JERK.
Do not walk away from this type of Mat(s).... Run and when you run make sure you run as fast as you can.
with love,
Aleesha
typicalMATsays owner ¶ 4:14:00 PM 0 Comments
Hey babies,
Aleesha here updating for typicalMATsays like again. Macam rajin lah gitu nak update. Heees. Well my telinga macam panas jer dengar. Well, this is seriously gonna be a post for someone whom i know and also an advice to all you single ladies out there. This is kinda sensitive but seriously urh, telinga aku naik panas dgr pmpn2 yang kluar ngan laki orang! like wtf?
No matter how many times he tells you, he loves you more than his wife, she is a witch, and you are the one for him... HE IS LYING! He is having a little fantasy at your expense! At the other hand you must be smart and not fall for his word.
Ader lah Al-Kisah yang pernah terjadi lah kan, I got to know this girl we named her "A" is going out with "I" and "I"- is a married man with one kid. "A" loves this "I" and these two humans act as if there is nothing wrong kissing in public when all the collegues tau lah si "I" ni dah khawin.
After si "I" dah dapat balik rumah uncle ngan "A": he goes around the workplace telling people how small "A" breast is like with a description of 'macam kuih pau je' how cruel. Thats what i mean by your expense.
Do not, under any circumstances fall for this as-old-as-the-hills deception.
Think about it, do you even want to be with someone who is cheating on his wife? What does that say about his moral character? His sense of decency? His ability to be honest, truthful, committed? What does it say about his sense of family, compassion, and concern for others?
It tells you loud and clear that he is a jerk! FREAKING BIG JERK.
Do not walk away from this type of Mat(s).... Run and when you run make sure you run as fast as you can.
with love,
Aleesha
typicalMATsays owner ¶ 4:14:00 PM 0 Comments
Saturday, May 15, 2010
My boyfriend is way too old?!
Hey awesome readers,
Aleesha here updating for typicalMATsays once again. Now now now, my topic today is sungguh panas sangat. Its about you being with a Mat whom is way older than you. like 10 years or maybe 7 or maybe 20? i don't know. I saje nak buat whole thing suspend jer ((:
Whatever Aleesha gonna type below is my very own opinion nothing gotta do with anyone okay darlings. Sape-sape yang rase tak happy with my thoughts, your opinion is very much welcome. Well why? coz age is a very sensitive issue ((:
So here goes nothing ...
If a Mat is twenty years older than you he is not interested in you
OK, he may be interested in using you but he is not interested in YOU.
I do not care what this Mat says, how convincing is his language, how cool he seems to be, he wants one thing and that thing is not a healthy emotional, equal, fulfilling partnership.
Now, let me just say, older Mat who embrace their age, experience, and maturity are COOL, well at least. What is not cool are those older Mat who use younger women to try to forget who they really are.
Best example for me to quote: PAKCIK PAKCIK DANGDUT GITU.
You can find a great Met who is interested in you; a Mat close to your age with whom you will have something in common! ¶ 2:19:00 PM 0 Comments
Aleesha here updating for typicalMATsays once again. Now now now, my topic today is sungguh panas sangat. Its about you being with a Mat whom is way older than you. like 10 years or maybe 7 or maybe 20? i don't know. I saje nak buat whole thing suspend jer ((:
So here goes nothing ...
If a Mat is twenty years older than you he is not interested in you
OK, he may be interested in using you but he is not interested in YOU.
I do not care what this Mat says, how convincing is his language, how cool he seems to be, he wants one thing and that thing is not a healthy emotional, equal, fulfilling partnership.
Now, let me just say, older Mat who embrace their age, experience, and maturity are COOL, well at least. What is not cool are those older Mat who use younger women to try to forget who they really are.
Best example for me to quote: PAKCIK PAKCIK DANGDUT GITU.
You can find a great Met who is interested in you; a Mat close to your age with whom you will have something in common! ¶ 2:19:00 PM 0 Comments
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
cycle of being used
Aleesha here, writing in for TMS as usual. I've been hearing news how we ladies been used badly by our Mats. Be it through financial or sexual or simple companion.
If your self-esteem is strong and healthy, you are less likely to be used by any Mats in singapore(teehee).
Contrariwise, ladies with low self-esteem and feeling of insecurity and worthlessness are often vulnerable to the use and degradation of not-so-great Mat. This is what we call 'Mat takde masa depan'
Over and over I see young women with low self esteem who think that if a Mat gives them attention it means they are valuable. Or if they have sex with a Mat, then he will love them. Not so. Totally NO.
There is a big difference between a great Mat wanting to be with a lady (like you, you and you) , and a not-so-great Mat wanting to use whomever they can find for an hour or so. Ouh well, macam one night stand gitu.
We are valuable because we are a human being. Regardless of the views of all the Mat(s) in Singapore, you are important. You have unique talents, traits, and ideas that have nothing to do with how not-so-great Mat(s) view you sexually. Your worth is not dependent on a bunch of Mat(s) who want nothing more than someone to take care of their needs.
Here is what often happens...
1. A woman lacks self-esteem, feels unattractive, worthless or unappealing to all Mat(s).
2. She feels horrible about herself and thinks she is not worthy of a great Mat(s).
3. She takes unhealthy attention from any Mat(s) - Slaps forehead hard, who is in need of sexual pleasure.
4. She really wants a Mat to give her attention to help her feel valuable so she gives herself to whomever gives her a glance.
And so the cycle continues. Macam recycling bin gitu, uhhh macam gitu uh hidup korang nanti jadi.
How does a lady break the cycle?
You strengthen your self-esteem. You decide that you will not be taken advantage of again. You become strong and secure. You let go of the idea that your value is dependent on your sexual appeal to any Mat(s). You take back your strength.
I'm not suggesting it is easy. In truth it is often most difficult. But, until a lady decides she is not going to be used, she will continue to be vulnerable... she will continue to get hurt. Nanti dah pedih-pedih, sape mau pi layan kau? Mat sengkek2? no, they will leave you there.
Those Mat who use you are not the kind of Mat(s) you want to be with. They are not the type of Mat(s) who make for a great husband or long term partner. like duhhh~ takkan aku nak kena ajar ni part kan?
There are great Mat(s) out there (believe it or not) who want a healthy and happy relationship. There are great Mat(s) who won't take advantage of a vulnerable insecure woman eventhough i should say: only a handful are left still.
with love,
Aleesha.
typicalMATsays owner. ¶ 2:06:00 AM 0 Comments
Hey readers (ladies especially)
If your self-esteem is strong and healthy, you are less likely to be used by any Mats in singapore(teehee).
Contrariwise, ladies with low self-esteem and feeling of insecurity and worthlessness are often vulnerable to the use and degradation of not-so-great Mat. This is what we call 'Mat takde masa depan'
Over and over I see young women with low self esteem who think that if a Mat gives them attention it means they are valuable. Or if they have sex with a Mat, then he will love them. Not so. Totally NO.
There is a big difference between a great Mat wanting to be with a lady (like you, you and you) , and a not-so-great Mat wanting to use whomever they can find for an hour or so. Ouh well, macam one night stand gitu.
We are valuable because we are a human being. Regardless of the views of all the Mat(s) in Singapore, you are important. You have unique talents, traits, and ideas that have nothing to do with how not-so-great Mat(s) view you sexually. Your worth is not dependent on a bunch of Mat(s) who want nothing more than someone to take care of their needs.
Here is what often happens...
1. A woman lacks self-esteem, feels unattractive, worthless or unappealing to all Mat(s).
2. She feels horrible about herself and thinks she is not worthy of a great Mat(s).
3. She takes unhealthy attention from any Mat(s) - Slaps forehead hard, who is in need of sexual pleasure.
4. She really wants a Mat to give her attention to help her feel valuable so she gives herself to whomever gives her a glance.
And so the cycle continues. Macam recycling bin gitu, uhhh macam gitu uh hidup korang nanti jadi.
How does a lady break the cycle?
You strengthen your self-esteem. You decide that you will not be taken advantage of again. You become strong and secure. You let go of the idea that your value is dependent on your sexual appeal to any Mat(s). You take back your strength.
I'm not suggesting it is easy. In truth it is often most difficult. But, until a lady decides she is not going to be used, she will continue to be vulnerable... she will continue to get hurt. Nanti dah pedih-pedih, sape mau pi layan kau? Mat sengkek2? no, they will leave you there.
Those Mat who use you are not the kind of Mat(s) you want to be with. They are not the type of Mat(s) who make for a great husband or long term partner. like duhhh~ takkan aku nak kena ajar ni part kan?
There are great Mat(s) out there (believe it or not) who want a healthy and happy relationship. There are great Mat(s) who won't take advantage of a vulnerable insecure woman eventhough i should say: only a handful are left still.
with love,
Aleesha.
typicalMATsays owner. ¶ 2:06:00 AM 0 Comments
Monday, May 10, 2010
thousands of apology.
well, typicalmatsays do know that we've dissapointed many readers by not updating as often as we usually did. Ouh well, and we do receive lots of emails asking us to reopen the blog on BLOGGER. and after many round of discussion & thoughts we ought to give it a chance. We will be sticking to blogger and onsugar will be closed down and removed permanently.
Plus onsugar is a bit unfriendly :(
thus, i really hope you ladies & gentlemen really gonna support TMS once again like you did once before.
with love,
Aleesha
(owner typicalMATsays)
PS: if you do notice this is the first time i'm leaving my name (: ¶ 1:52:00 AM 0 Comments
Plus onsugar is a bit unfriendly :(
thus, i really hope you ladies & gentlemen really gonna support TMS once again like you did once before.
with love,
Aleesha
(owner typicalMATsays)
PS: if you do notice this is the first time i'm leaving my name (: ¶ 1:52:00 AM 0 Comments
