Accept the facts right before hand, my language have been a reason why i deleted the previous post. with the sense of responsibility of this blog, i try to find a topic to talk about & will be on my very best to be 'no grammar error' or whatsoever.

relationships can be complicated and hard to understand for any of us, no matter how old we are. Ask most men and they'll all agree that understanding women is hard, this has always been an old joke, but men are just as hard for women to understand too. all couples will definitely have rows with each other and tat consists of irritational behaviour..  these are not meant for mats only, at times minahs have this..

• Being late
• Personal hygiene
• Being criticised in public
• Amount of time spent on personal interests rather than with partner
• Amount of time spent getting ready
• Choice of clothes
• Food issues - including dieting, table manners and faddiness

i think you will agree much or less about this, right?? but why we cant accept the facts the bad or the worse of someone? isit because we are jealous of someone else having the better ones? for myself, i can agree abt that. but im mostly agree on we r doing this for the sake of our loved ones. for instance, we, girls, spend hours of dolling up & want to look pretty for our partner. as for the guys lak, drg pakai so.... selekeh nk mampos. mcm exaggerating sgt la pulak. perhaps i can put it in this way, they wear as simple as t-shirt & jeans or even with slipper. kn selekeh nama nye. but to their eyes, they want to be simple as can be. what do guys think when we make a huge fuss abt all tis things?? they think we are being snobbish isnt it?

some guys out there might request their partner to wear simple when kluar sama2. okay.. for sure we listen to them right?? sayang punye pasal katakn... but i give u two scenarios after u listen to yr guy.

Scenario 1
you went out with your girlfriends and you r wearing super nice. yela.. ngan kwn, we must dress up well. while you are out having fun, yr bf call & ask for last minute meetup. kalau guy mintak jumpe mesti nk kn? then, when u meet him, he asked you so many questions:

• why you wear so nice ni?
• melawa utk sape?? utk jantan lain ehh?
• kluar ngan kwn ke kluar ngan jantan lain??

Scenario 2
you & yr guy are roaming arnd in the shopping centre.

yr guy: ehh! u tgk pompan tu. dia nye dressing lawa ehh?
you: huh! dulu i kai lawa2 utk u, you ask me to dress as simple as can be. ape u bual2 ni??

see.. what guys are thinking nowadays? when we are grooming for them, they asked you to dress so simple & when we dress as what they asked to, they looked at other guys. they always say girls are always fickled. then how abt them? are their mind fix to make a decision?

♥, Minah Selenge  ¶ 12:52:00 PM