Do you know your MAT(s)
Thursday, February 4, 2010
  When Another Race meet a MAT
I woke up feeling all lethargic and i went straight to my hot sexy red VAIO lappy. Read up all the mails i receive as usal. Twitter, Spam, Spam, Nuffnang, and only ONE story from my reader.
and this reader is v special to me. This reader is non-malay and i was shocked with what she went through with our race, our Mat. With the fact that its an interesting story, i am also glad that TypicalMATsays also attract non-malay readers too (;

So enjoy people.....

From:_____________________________
Sent: 04 February 2010 15: 29PM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com

Hi there TMS!

Firstly.. I am really please that you have shared all these with u guys. I hope you can help more people.
Secondly.. Here is my story which i would like to share.. Sorry if its gonna be long winded.. hahaa.. :)

When i was 15, i met my first malay bf (am i a chinese). His the sort of skaterboys whom do act like a MAT too.. well.. they are all the same.
What attracted him to me, was when i was down he happened to be there.. (its like rite timin gitu lah..) and of cus his cool skater bullshit at that time.

I was over the moon of cus.. Reason being.. to date a different race is somewhat exciting of cus.

We started having sex into the second mth.. and after that.. it was just.. nothing.
I got more sticky towards him, thinking he was the best! I admit I was too needing him that he might think that his not having fun for his 15 year old life.

We drifted apart dratiscally. He started to MIA and all that you mention about signs of MATs cheating begin to show.
I do somehow know that was happening and it got me more sticky towards him and hoping he would change.
Well.. i dig my own grave and I did not regret. If i didnt, i wouldnt see his true colour.

It was our anniversary once and i booked a chalet just for the two of us.Let say we were supposed to meet at 12pm. He did not show up then, so i called him and he said his still busy at home. When actually.. right in front of my eyes.. he was with another gal. So i hold my cools and waited for another 15mins before ringin him again. Finally he admitted but he say they are just frens. I told him I will be at the chalet waiting for him and he actually brought the gal and his fren over too.

I was fumming mad but wat can i do. I told him off and he chased the two away. And of cus they chalet stay went well with his crap shit promises.

Things never got better between us. I was torned, I did badly. Im in a single parent family and my frens have all left me becus I was too attached to him and listen to wateva he said. Soon, i was alone, and pregnant. Somehow, we didnt handle the situation properly and end up, it was a police case. My mother hated me so much she sent me out of the house and into a gals home. I had no choice. I was scared, i am not in the home bcus i steal or did crime.. it was bcus i loved him. Of cus, he did noth much throughout this whole issue and his dad even called me names. I bear with all this and killed my first child.

Well.. I think i did not mention above that i was a sex toy him. I only found out that I am after we broke up. Bcus.. he would only be nice if he wants some sex. we were never that loving as we were and ppl in sch, call me his dog. Very soon, he asked for breakup, bcus he think i was crazy. After my second abortion, (yes, SECOND) i got very protective and got depressed with my mother just hating me more each time she sees me. He found someone new and i only found out after we broke up. I wasnt aware so I would text him and wait for him under his blk just hoping to see his face as he would void me in sch. I still send breakfast to his class every morning and would be all alone in sch.

Once, i really missed him badly and i begged him to just meet me in sch for just 5 mins.. he did and i was greedy and told him to stay longer, he refused. He got up and punched me hard in the tummy and left. I was in great pain and could only call my fren to help me home.

I called him that nite, and it was finally over.
Becus he said, "Even if you were to die. It is ur pasal."
I hung up and told myself, that was it.

With that, i failed my O'levels badly and i started dating all sorts of man and i would cheat on them or just date them for a short period of time.
It was a way for me to "get back" and stay alive. There is more when i got no home, no noth.

The moral: Not just minahs or malay gal do the mats treat in a bastard way. The story that continues from there is about me meetin another ex of mine, one that i took courage to not cheat and get back anymore. But it still didnt work out. cus i was cheated in the end.
I learnt my lesson and now.. I am very blessed with my fiance now. I will be converting soon as well.
 
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