Saturday, February 6, 2010
Mat pakai 'barang' at me :(
Hey all of ya, miss TMS? tak? alaaaaaaaaahhh. Tak nak updatelah :(
hehe, well i managed to squeeze sometime in between and update this blog for you darlings.
From:________________
Sent: 05 February 2010 11: 27AM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hi, I wanna to share with you guys on one of my suckiest experience in my life ever. It was a wake up call for me and also, a lesson to be learnt for others. Let's just disclose the name as it too personal to be told.
This happened in the midst of Oct - Nov 09. I'm attached to my wonderful boyfriend for 4 years. And, of course, in parts and parcel of relationship, there's always time when you are up and you are down.
The monster,XX, wife just passed away. As a Facebook friend, when your friend is down, you would want to cheer them up right? So, each time when XX posted a sad status, i would comment him and cheer him up. Nothing more than that.
My relationship with my boyfriend gone haywired. Miscommunication, Misunderstanding etc etc. XX started a conversation with me on Facebook, and since then, we both chatted, share each other problems etc.
It wasn't for long when he decided to meet me up for a cup of tea. So, why not? Infact, i only regard him as a friend. Fullstop.
So, after our first meetup, he confessed to me how he felt when he met me. Those mushy-mushy sms was seriously no joke! I was surprise cause i didn't expect him to say that when his wife just passed away for not even a month!
I knew if I'm still going on the friendship i had with XX, i'm sure gonna be in deep deep trouble. I don't know what was I thinking that time.
Few days later, he asked me on a date to the movie. Take note - my relationship with my boyfriend is still ON but rocky that time. Like i said, I dont know what was i thinking, I agreed.
So, after work he fetched me etc etc. And, we started to get close - very close. We went out w/out my boyfriend knowing till one fine day, my boyfriend called me up and asked for a meet up. I knew i had to confess to him one day soon about this.
I scolded my boyfriend, calling him names etc etc. Never did i thought, my boyfriend called my parents up asking why am i reacting this way etc etc. My relationship with my parents too gone haywired. Each time when I reached home, we would verbally quarreled with each other.
One day, when I reached my void deck after meeting XX, I saw my boyfriend sitting alone. He came to me begging and crying. Asking me why, what have he done wrong etc. I cried along with him. Memang tak sangka, bile jumpe XX, hati i asyik nak mengamok aje dengan orang lain. Tapi bile i jumpe my boyfriend, i nangis, mintak maaf dekat dia etc. Macam 2 different personality.
To cut it all short, I told him about XX. A to Z. At one point of time, I remembered telling him that XX had this 'barang' with him. Not sure if it's good or bad, my boyfriend decided to ask his auntie (orang berubat) secretly behind my back.
After that incident, I still went out with XX, till one fine day, my dad all geared up to find XX and beat him.
I mean - come on? XX wife belum lepas 100 hari, kubur masih merah, lagi masih boleh bercinta dengan pompuan (refer to me) yang 10 years younger than him? Ridiculous. - that's what my parents, my friends, my boyfriend, my boss, my colleagues said to me.
My dad nearly give up on me. I was afraid to go back home until i have to call my boyfriend to accompany me. So, he drove all the way to my place and accompany me back home. At that time, i was crying like mad. My boyfriend was so patience with me. Very patience. He did not give up on me.
Even my close friends asking me why am i too devoted to XX until my relationship with the rest of my close ones turned sour. They keep advicing me but being the stubborn me, i ignored.
1 December 2009, it was our 4th year anniversary. Things around us doesn't really change much. XX still smses me with all those 'sayang' etc etc.
In the morning, my boyfriend called me up and aleh-aleh told me that XX ade pakai barang dekat I. I dont believe at first. But never did i thought, my boyfriend went to 4 different people asking about me. And, they said the same thing. I was blanked.
To cut it short, at night, my boyfriend & I including my parents met with my boyfriend's auntie (since I tak percaya my boyfriend, i told him that i wanna meet his auntie personally). It was a scary procedure. But this is what his auntie told me.
His auntie told me that XX ade celop barang dekat tangan I. XX also tiup at my face so that i fall for him each time we met. And, barang yang die ade is barang tak baik.
"XX ni memang kurang ajar. Belum 100 hari dah carik pompuan muda lain. Barang tu barang pengasih. Mane kau tak perasan sebab kau dalam tangan dia." - his auntie said.
Lepas mandi bunga etc etc, alhamdulillah, everything went well after that. I was told not to contact with XX ANYMORE.
I changed my number. I changed my email address, I close down my Facebook. My relationship with my close one also improved. I dah tak termenung. My job also tak haywired.
Since then, i began to realise, what if my boyfriend didn't come to a rescue? It could have been WORST. And, thank god for my boyfriend being patience towards me. I am still with my boyfriend since today.
MORAL: To all the girls out there, becareful of who you met from Online. Take this as a lesson. If something SUDDENLY went wrong with your surrounding (your workplace, your relationship w your parents, your friends drifted away), dont hesitate to approach orang-orang berubat and tell them to check on you. Memang tak sangka, bende mcm gini masih boleh wujud, but it still is. It's just weird that bini belum lagi 100 hari, suami dah carik pompuan lain yang 10 years lagi muda daripada dia. And, im one of the victim. ¶ 4:05:00 PM
hehe, well i managed to squeeze sometime in between and update this blog for you darlings.
From:________________
Sent: 05 February 2010 11: 27AM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hi, I wanna to share with you guys on one of my suckiest experience in my life ever. It was a wake up call for me and also, a lesson to be learnt for others. Let's just disclose the name as it too personal to be told.
This happened in the midst of Oct - Nov 09. I'm attached to my wonderful boyfriend for 4 years. And, of course, in parts and parcel of relationship, there's always time when you are up and you are down.
The monster,XX, wife just passed away. As a Facebook friend, when your friend is down, you would want to cheer them up right? So, each time when XX posted a sad status, i would comment him and cheer him up. Nothing more than that.
My relationship with my boyfriend gone haywired. Miscommunication, Misunderstanding etc etc. XX started a conversation with me on Facebook, and since then, we both chatted, share each other problems etc.
It wasn't for long when he decided to meet me up for a cup of tea. So, why not? Infact, i only regard him as a friend. Fullstop.
So, after our first meetup, he confessed to me how he felt when he met me. Those mushy-mushy sms was seriously no joke! I was surprise cause i didn't expect him to say that when his wife just passed away for not even a month!
I knew if I'm still going on the friendship i had with XX, i'm sure gonna be in deep deep trouble. I don't know what was I thinking that time.
Few days later, he asked me on a date to the movie. Take note - my relationship with my boyfriend is still ON but rocky that time. Like i said, I dont know what was i thinking, I agreed.
So, after work he fetched me etc etc. And, we started to get close - very close. We went out w/out my boyfriend knowing till one fine day, my boyfriend called me up and asked for a meet up. I knew i had to confess to him one day soon about this.
I scolded my boyfriend, calling him names etc etc. Never did i thought, my boyfriend called my parents up asking why am i reacting this way etc etc. My relationship with my parents too gone haywired. Each time when I reached home, we would verbally quarreled with each other.
One day, when I reached my void deck after meeting XX, I saw my boyfriend sitting alone. He came to me begging and crying. Asking me why, what have he done wrong etc. I cried along with him. Memang tak sangka, bile jumpe XX, hati i asyik nak mengamok aje dengan orang lain. Tapi bile i jumpe my boyfriend, i nangis, mintak maaf dekat dia etc. Macam 2 different personality.
To cut it all short, I told him about XX. A to Z. At one point of time, I remembered telling him that XX had this 'barang' with him. Not sure if it's good or bad, my boyfriend decided to ask his auntie (orang berubat) secretly behind my back.
After that incident, I still went out with XX, till one fine day, my dad all geared up to find XX and beat him.
I mean - come on? XX wife belum lepas 100 hari, kubur masih merah, lagi masih boleh bercinta dengan pompuan (refer to me) yang 10 years younger than him? Ridiculous. - that's what my parents, my friends, my boyfriend, my boss, my colleagues said to me.
My dad nearly give up on me. I was afraid to go back home until i have to call my boyfriend to accompany me. So, he drove all the way to my place and accompany me back home. At that time, i was crying like mad. My boyfriend was so patience with me. Very patience. He did not give up on me.
Even my close friends asking me why am i too devoted to XX until my relationship with the rest of my close ones turned sour. They keep advicing me but being the stubborn me, i ignored.
1 December 2009, it was our 4th year anniversary. Things around us doesn't really change much. XX still smses me with all those 'sayang' etc etc.
In the morning, my boyfriend called me up and aleh-aleh told me that XX ade pakai barang dekat I. I dont believe at first. But never did i thought, my boyfriend went to 4 different people asking about me. And, they said the same thing. I was blanked.
To cut it short, at night, my boyfriend & I including my parents met with my boyfriend's auntie (since I tak percaya my boyfriend, i told him that i wanna meet his auntie personally). It was a scary procedure. But this is what his auntie told me.
His auntie told me that XX ade celop barang dekat tangan I. XX also tiup at my face so that i fall for him each time we met. And, barang yang die ade is barang tak baik.
"XX ni memang kurang ajar. Belum 100 hari dah carik pompuan muda lain. Barang tu barang pengasih. Mane kau tak perasan sebab kau dalam tangan dia." - his auntie said.
Lepas mandi bunga etc etc, alhamdulillah, everything went well after that. I was told not to contact with XX ANYMORE.
I changed my number. I changed my email address, I close down my Facebook. My relationship with my close one also improved. I dah tak termenung. My job also tak haywired.
Since then, i began to realise, what if my boyfriend didn't come to a rescue? It could have been WORST. And, thank god for my boyfriend being patience towards me. I am still with my boyfriend since today.
MORAL: To all the girls out there, becareful of who you met from Online. Take this as a lesson. If something SUDDENLY went wrong with your surrounding (your workplace, your relationship w your parents, your friends drifted away), dont hesitate to approach orang-orang berubat and tell them to check on you. Memang tak sangka, bende mcm gini masih boleh wujud, but it still is. It's just weird that bini belum lagi 100 hari, suami dah carik pompuan lain yang 10 years lagi muda daripada dia. And, im one of the victim. ¶ 4:05:00 PM
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