Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Ex Mat i All in one tao
From:__________________
Sent: 02 February 2010 23: 12PM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hey there beautiful readers + owner, I would like to share a kinda long story yet sickening to me. Hope you guys enjoy reading it and doesn't feel bored, as it's a long story.
I get to know this Mat from Friendster cum Facebook back in 2007 (can't remember the month). At first we were just commenting on each other profile and he have been sending smile(Friendster) to me. At that point of time I know that he just broke off with his ex gf which work at the same place with him, also he's my cousin's ex bf as well. And I was attached with my long term bf. It all started when we exchanged MSN add and chatted all the way through there. He jolly well knows that I'm attached at that time but no harming being friends right? While MSN-ing with each other, webcam and all, he asked for my no and wish to talk to me coz the connectivity at his house was kinda sucks. Starting from there we talked everyday and he will call me once he's at work and will make a wake up call for me to go to work everyday without fail.
At that time, me and my bf not really in good term and in a verge of split up. So, few months time we became close, till I broke off with my bf and go steady with him. At first, he was so sweet, caring and loving guy. He will meet me everyday after my work and before he went to work at town. He's a bouncer at one of the big club. Until 1 day when he had a problem at his work place and furthermore I don't really like it when he work as a bouncer, a problem start to arise.
But unfortunately, he also having problems at home. So, since we are bf gf, I offered him to stay at my place for a month until he get his own house which both my parents agreed. All goes smoothly when 2 months later we stay at his sister's place. Things suddenly turns sour after staying there. He started to beat me and stuff, scolding me for no reasons, started to control me. His sister is married with 2 kids, he don't let me talk to his bro in law. I mean like, it's a bit weird when you guys staying in one roof and I can't even talk to the owner of the house, wtf?! Mat claimed that his bro in law some kind of flirtish guy, I mean both hubby and wife is not faithful to each other but I wouldn't careless bout their matter.
As time goes by, he became more and more obsessive and over protected over everything. Like I can't talk to my colleagues(boys), every movement I have to report to him like going for my lunch and dinner break at work, can't even look at motorcycle and passerby. Kalau ade laki passby, i nk kene tundok bwh. Tk ke mcm mengarutz? THINGS THAT HE DID THAT I CLAIMED "CONTROL".-He will check my lappy history like which website I surf and check hp.-My bro PS3 got my ex bf photos, he asked to delete all of them even though not his property.-Some has stated above.-If my dad get close to me his face will change as if he don't like it.-I can't comment about any of the actor on tv. (He's acting too)-
My family can't talk to me anything about their friends especially my bro's fren.-If my bro's fren visit over, I have to go inside the room and can't talk with them even though I regards them as small brother to me and known for years.-He don't let me going out with my girlfrens w/o him.-
He even fucked my bro when his camp mate stay in my house for few days stating that could be me and my bro's camp mate will have an affair even my parents around.. and etc etc.. So slowly, I feel like shit when I'm with him and started to think about the ex coz he never treat me how this Mat treated me before.
Like seriously, my ex ever warned me not to be with this guy coz he's not a gd guy. Yeah my ex knows him. At one point of time when I was working, and his off day, he claimed that wanted to visit his parents, take his stuff and all. And on that very particular day, I feel something is not right coz usually he will text or call me every minute. But that time, I don't even receive any missed call or text from him. When suddenly one of my friend called me up and asked.
friend: Woit, ko kt mane?
Me: Aku kt keje lar, kt mane lagi...
Fren: Mat mane uh?
Me: Mat g uma mak de g amek brg jap.. Asl?
Fren: Aku rase aku nmpk de uh kt daerah Yishun.... Tapiiiii dgn POMPAN.
Me: Wat???? De ngn pmpn? Sape pmpn 2? How she look like?
Fren: Aku tk knal 2 pmpn p de pkai baju colour pink, nmpk mcm lawa2 sket rmbt blonde. De mcm nmpk aku ngn laki aku kt dlm kete tapi de tgkkn je. Aku pon buat bodo lar.
Me: K tkpe, aku g siasat.
Fren: Ko jage2 girl, jgn percaye sgt ngn nie jntn.
Me: KK, aku tau. Thanks for the information.
As soon as I know the info from my friend, I just act as normal until that night he fetch me from work. Before that I called up his sister and asked baju ape de pkai and all, adek de describe and tell me what time he going back. So, when he fetch me, his face normal. Like nothing happens. But I started to act strange. Sape tk tekejot kn bile dpt tau bf de ade jmp pmpn lain? I couldn't help it, I ask him. He said that he meet his old friend over there when he was about to leave that area.
To cut it short, after some time, I get to know that he went hotel with this girl and this girl was his sister's friend!! Yes, his sister also pakat with him! What a sibling. His sister was so good to me and end up she did this. They actually not that close. They came from broken family.
One day he and sister quarreled over some matters, and we stay back at my place. But by the time my whole family didn't like him at all esp my mother. Since my mom knew that I love him so much, she asked us to get married as she worried if I'm pregnant or so. We did register our marriage at ROMM with dad and w/o his parents come over to our place to talk about this matter. We went for marriage course and stuff. Another few more months about to get married, de buat hal. Gado sket je tk alek uma and claimed staying over at his fren's which I don't trust him eventually.
After 2 weeks of silence, I went to ROMM and canceled our marriage date. After few days, we contacted back and he blamed me for canceling the marriage by not talk things out. I mean, what do he expect? Never contact for more than 2 weeks and he still want us to get married? Tk masok akal kn??
We didn't contact for 2 months when suddenly he start contacting back and that time he had a gf, hisgf called me up and talk to me when she knows that we've been contacting and stuff. When I asked him, he denied. He said that girl likes him and she close with his family, that's all. When we are not together, he stay again with his sister. Da baik2 lar 2 konon.
One night he called me up says that wanted to meet me, so he meet me infront of my work place and had our supper together with my colleagues. At that very night he said he wanna get back to me. I did admit that I still love him after what he have done, still have patience. I don't know why. I told that his ex gf we are together again. And that girl claimed that she's pregnant! Lagi 1 hal. He told me that he will pay for the abortion fees.
When we got back together this time, his attitude became worst. Everyday we meet up, he will lay hands on me for no reasons. I will cry but never fight back coz he's way too strong. Biase laki kn. Everytime we quarrel he will beat me as he like and after when he saw me bleeding he will say sorry and cried and moments start again. Tgk de mcm tk btol pon ade lar dekni.
The last break up is on last year Sep when I get to know he meet his ex gf with her frens for a karaoke session, took pictures pelok2! I can't take itanymore and I just asked for break up. On Nov he went to my work place and stating that he still love me and miss me and all bullshits. But at that time, I'm back together with my ex bf.
Till now, he's still on my facebook friendlist. I get to know after he break off with me, he went back together with his ex gf and now I think they break off again. Well, he's the type that not enough with one girl, beats as he likes (even punch me on public till i bleeds) and infront of my parents, always promise but end up not in his words, talks bad about my family and lots more.. it's too hurt to say it out.. t
hat's all for now. actually, it's longer than this but I hope u people will get into the picture. Thank you for your time. =) ¶ 1:40:00 PM
Sent: 02 February 2010 23: 12PM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hey there beautiful readers + owner, I would like to share a kinda long story yet sickening to me. Hope you guys enjoy reading it and doesn't feel bored, as it's a long story.
I get to know this Mat from Friendster cum Facebook back in 2007 (can't remember the month). At first we were just commenting on each other profile and he have been sending smile(Friendster) to me. At that point of time I know that he just broke off with his ex gf which work at the same place with him, also he's my cousin's ex bf as well. And I was attached with my long term bf. It all started when we exchanged MSN add and chatted all the way through there. He jolly well knows that I'm attached at that time but no harming being friends right? While MSN-ing with each other, webcam and all, he asked for my no and wish to talk to me coz the connectivity at his house was kinda sucks. Starting from there we talked everyday and he will call me once he's at work and will make a wake up call for me to go to work everyday without fail.
At that time, me and my bf not really in good term and in a verge of split up. So, few months time we became close, till I broke off with my bf and go steady with him. At first, he was so sweet, caring and loving guy. He will meet me everyday after my work and before he went to work at town. He's a bouncer at one of the big club. Until 1 day when he had a problem at his work place and furthermore I don't really like it when he work as a bouncer, a problem start to arise.
But unfortunately, he also having problems at home. So, since we are bf gf, I offered him to stay at my place for a month until he get his own house which both my parents agreed. All goes smoothly when 2 months later we stay at his sister's place. Things suddenly turns sour after staying there. He started to beat me and stuff, scolding me for no reasons, started to control me. His sister is married with 2 kids, he don't let me talk to his bro in law. I mean like, it's a bit weird when you guys staying in one roof and I can't even talk to the owner of the house, wtf?! Mat claimed that his bro in law some kind of flirtish guy, I mean both hubby and wife is not faithful to each other but I wouldn't careless bout their matter.
As time goes by, he became more and more obsessive and over protected over everything. Like I can't talk to my colleagues(boys), every movement I have to report to him like going for my lunch and dinner break at work, can't even look at motorcycle and passerby. Kalau ade laki passby, i nk kene tundok bwh. Tk ke mcm mengarutz? THINGS THAT HE DID THAT I CLAIMED "CONTROL".-He will check my lappy history like which website I surf and check hp.-My bro PS3 got my ex bf photos, he asked to delete all of them even though not his property.-Some has stated above.-If my dad get close to me his face will change as if he don't like it.-I can't comment about any of the actor on tv. (He's acting too)-
My family can't talk to me anything about their friends especially my bro's fren.-If my bro's fren visit over, I have to go inside the room and can't talk with them even though I regards them as small brother to me and known for years.-He don't let me going out with my girlfrens w/o him.-
He even fucked my bro when his camp mate stay in my house for few days stating that could be me and my bro's camp mate will have an affair even my parents around.. and etc etc.. So slowly, I feel like shit when I'm with him and started to think about the ex coz he never treat me how this Mat treated me before.
Like seriously, my ex ever warned me not to be with this guy coz he's not a gd guy. Yeah my ex knows him. At one point of time when I was working, and his off day, he claimed that wanted to visit his parents, take his stuff and all. And on that very particular day, I feel something is not right coz usually he will text or call me every minute. But that time, I don't even receive any missed call or text from him. When suddenly one of my friend called me up and asked.
friend: Woit, ko kt mane?
Me: Aku kt keje lar, kt mane lagi...
Fren: Mat mane uh?
Me: Mat g uma mak de g amek brg jap.. Asl?
Fren: Aku rase aku nmpk de uh kt daerah Yishun.... Tapiiiii dgn POMPAN.
Me: Wat???? De ngn pmpn? Sape pmpn 2? How she look like?
Fren: Aku tk knal 2 pmpn p de pkai baju colour pink, nmpk mcm lawa2 sket rmbt blonde. De mcm nmpk aku ngn laki aku kt dlm kete tapi de tgkkn je. Aku pon buat bodo lar.
Me: K tkpe, aku g siasat.
Fren: Ko jage2 girl, jgn percaye sgt ngn nie jntn.
Me: KK, aku tau. Thanks for the information.
As soon as I know the info from my friend, I just act as normal until that night he fetch me from work. Before that I called up his sister and asked baju ape de pkai and all, adek de describe and tell me what time he going back. So, when he fetch me, his face normal. Like nothing happens. But I started to act strange. Sape tk tekejot kn bile dpt tau bf de ade jmp pmpn lain? I couldn't help it, I ask him. He said that he meet his old friend over there when he was about to leave that area.
To cut it short, after some time, I get to know that he went hotel with this girl and this girl was his sister's friend!! Yes, his sister also pakat with him! What a sibling. His sister was so good to me and end up she did this. They actually not that close. They came from broken family.
One day he and sister quarreled over some matters, and we stay back at my place. But by the time my whole family didn't like him at all esp my mother. Since my mom knew that I love him so much, she asked us to get married as she worried if I'm pregnant or so. We did register our marriage at ROMM with dad and w/o his parents come over to our place to talk about this matter. We went for marriage course and stuff. Another few more months about to get married, de buat hal. Gado sket je tk alek uma and claimed staying over at his fren's which I don't trust him eventually.
After 2 weeks of silence, I went to ROMM and canceled our marriage date. After few days, we contacted back and he blamed me for canceling the marriage by not talk things out. I mean, what do he expect? Never contact for more than 2 weeks and he still want us to get married? Tk masok akal kn??
We didn't contact for 2 months when suddenly he start contacting back and that time he had a gf, hisgf called me up and talk to me when she knows that we've been contacting and stuff. When I asked him, he denied. He said that girl likes him and she close with his family, that's all. When we are not together, he stay again with his sister. Da baik2 lar 2 konon.
One night he called me up says that wanted to meet me, so he meet me infront of my work place and had our supper together with my colleagues. At that very night he said he wanna get back to me. I did admit that I still love him after what he have done, still have patience. I don't know why. I told that his ex gf we are together again. And that girl claimed that she's pregnant! Lagi 1 hal. He told me that he will pay for the abortion fees.
When we got back together this time, his attitude became worst. Everyday we meet up, he will lay hands on me for no reasons. I will cry but never fight back coz he's way too strong. Biase laki kn. Everytime we quarrel he will beat me as he like and after when he saw me bleeding he will say sorry and cried and moments start again. Tgk de mcm tk btol pon ade lar dekni.
The last break up is on last year Sep when I get to know he meet his ex gf with her frens for a karaoke session, took pictures pelok2! I can't take itanymore and I just asked for break up. On Nov he went to my work place and stating that he still love me and miss me and all bullshits. But at that time, I'm back together with my ex bf.
Till now, he's still on my facebook friendlist. I get to know after he break off with me, he went back together with his ex gf and now I think they break off again. Well, he's the type that not enough with one girl, beats as he likes (even punch me on public till i bleeds) and infront of my parents, always promise but end up not in his words, talks bad about my family and lots more.. it's too hurt to say it out.. t
hat's all for now. actually, it's longer than this but I hope u people will get into the picture. Thank you for your time. =) ¶ 1:40:00 PM
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