All of you are v familiar with http://www.alamak.com.sg/ right? This website work as a chatroom where people get to know each other and chat almost about everything under the sun, but what if it is under the moonlight (:

We all know how chatrooms like these can help you people increase your networking and also for some it can just bring madness to a relationship or marriage or engagement or TTM or blablabla.

But TypicalMATsays is not quoting alamak.com for this, please eh korang, im talking about any chatroom where two strangers can meet and chat only, increasing their networking.

TypicalMATsays today is ready enough to share this topic with its loyal readers.

Haha, korang mesti tao kan, kenapa title mcm gitu, actually aku pon tak tau asal, mcm interesting gitu. Basically thats the first thing that came into my mind while i was typing. Multi-tasking hamba.

Well, how to catch or know that your partner is making his way into the chatroom and chatting his ass away in the cyberworld. Mcm mane nak tau your Mat mengaku single when he is not? Nak buat ape eh kalau ur Mat is chatting and pretending as if he is not doing anything wrong?

lets put situation as such where the Mat is already married and you-as the wife, is already asleep or all ready to go off to work. You (the wife) do not know your Mat is active in the cyberworld and having to contact another girl behind your back.

You must really wonder how to catch his red handed, well... read through my experience and you will know how these Mats backstep they naughty trails and clean them up.. So enjoy.

For myself, i have encountered such thing before and i mean personally. I contacted this person for reason with regards to an event that i've got to do for my school (ite) back then. He was the only person i could liase directly and of course he was a very well-known player in one of the local soccer club.

Name: _____________________

Age: 25 or 26 (i think)

Hometown: Tampines

Club the mat playing for: _______________

Played for National team before: Yes

Status: Married

The very first time i called him up after getting his number from a friend of mine, i wanted to verified a few things with him and he told me to send him our project proposal to him through e-mail. A few days after sending the proposal, i called him again to check out whether he already received my e-mail, sekali belom lah.

He told me to add him at MSN so i could just send him the proposal there, much easier for him. So yeah, i did. Initially the conversation between him and me was only based on the project work but suddenly we got very close and started sms-ing as and when his wife is out to work and he is otw to his soccer training.

We even planned to go out together and have karaoke session together. Basically our contact was more than a friend who needs help. We had met a few times when he is otw to his training. Hugs and kisses on the cheek were exchanged. Yes, i was v bitchy that time.

But we somehow stop contacting coz i choose to. I felt guilty being in contact with him when he is already married and he v the slumber give me kisses and hugs on the phone or online.

Something that always triggers me, how on earth can he contact me when he is already married?

These are personal tips that i've gotten from my experience and i am willing enough to share with you loyal readers of TypicalMATsays. So better say thank you eh! haha.