Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Mat: I je yang betol.
Have you ever been with a Mat who thinks he is always right... a "know it all?" - macam Mat ni sorang je yang pandai, orang lain tak.
Mat(s) that wants their say on every topic including yourself? Like what you wear to work etc.
Mat(s) who are the experts on everything and anything?
Not only are they not fun to be around but they are also not your relationship-material Mat.
There is nothing more irritating than a Mat who won't listen to another side of a story, A Mat who doesnt see the world differently at certain time. Gosh these kinds of Mat(s) are such a pain in my ass and yours.
These Mat(s) can't handle the idea that they are not right, or that someone else may know more than do they.
These Mat(s) live in a black and white world where they are right and those who disagree are wrong. Macam dieorang je yang hidup and they je yang pandai.. Mintak kena siku-7 je.
These kind of Mat(s) will not open their minds to looking at life in new ways, nor will they even consider the possibility that they could improve in some ways.
These Mat(s) will never offer a sincere apology, will never admit they are wrong, and will never allow others to see a vulnerable side of themselves.
If you want a good relationship, realise that the 'Mat' are open and they are comfortable with not knowing every answer to every question. Doesn't mean that you don't know answers to every questions on the earth means that you are stupid.
They have opinions, even strong ones but they can listen to others and understand. They can agree or disagree. 'The Mat' know the world is filled with all sorts of people. Perangai bukan-bukan; and all of us know that by hard.
If you are looking for a Mat, find a Mat who can listen to others and respects YOUR opinion even if you disagree!
XOXO
Mat(s) that wants their say on every topic including yourself? Like what you wear to work etc.
Mat(s) who are the experts on everything and anything?
Not only are they not fun to be around but they are also not your relationship-material Mat.
There is nothing more irritating than a Mat who won't listen to another side of a story, A Mat who doesnt see the world differently at certain time. Gosh these kinds of Mat(s) are such a pain in my ass and yours.
These Mat(s) can't handle the idea that they are not right, or that someone else may know more than do they.
These Mat(s) live in a black and white world where they are right and those who disagree are wrong. Macam dieorang je yang hidup and they je yang pandai.. Mintak kena siku-7 je.
These kind of Mat(s) will not open their minds to looking at life in new ways, nor will they even consider the possibility that they could improve in some ways.
These Mat(s) will never offer a sincere apology, will never admit they are wrong, and will never allow others to see a vulnerable side of themselves.
If you want a good relationship, realise that the 'Mat' are open and they are comfortable with not knowing every answer to every question. Doesn't mean that you don't know answers to every questions on the earth means that you are stupid.
They have opinions, even strong ones but they can listen to others and understand. They can agree or disagree. 'The Mat' know the world is filled with all sorts of people. Perangai bukan-bukan; and all of us know that by hard.
If you are looking for a Mat, find a Mat who can listen to others and respects YOUR opinion even if you disagree!
XOXO
Labels: aku power, betol, Mat au au, puhlease
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