Sunday, January 24, 2010
Hey i am attached but single?
Hello beautiful and handsome readers, sorry lah never update for quite sometime. I was busy with a lot of things.. Work, My family, my friends, and of course lah kan, gaji dah masok tuh yang i busy sgt, heh.. Shopping (:
Wow, i didn't expect you guys really do come everyday to typicalMATsays and wanting me to keep updating this blog, like 2 post a day? alahai, kasi lah hamba chance, hamba kerja tao. ok. But i promise you people on thing, i'll update as often as possible.
Anyway, today post is written by one of our readers who wants to share with you beautiful people out there about this Mat.
HEY I AM ATTACHED BUT SINGLE.
(jgn nak senyum eh mat-mat yang tengah bace)
From: __________________________
Sent: 22 January 2010 17: 35PM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hello there! I wanna share my experience with all of the readers out there. This is about my own friend, whom i have known him for about a month plus. Yes, i know our friendship isnt that long, but many things had happened throughout our one month friendship.
I remembered clearly. I get to know my friend at Tagged and this happened on 18 December, which is just a month ago. From Tagged, we chatted over at MSN, and after MSN, we exchanged number with each other so we can keep in touch. At first, this friend of mine turns out to be sweet, and he gave me lots of advices cause at that point of time, my ex just dumped me. Ala, nie semue standard. Baru kenal mestilah sweet kn? Mane ade org baru kenal terus nk tunjuk perangai tk perlu dorang?
Few days after that, he told that he wanna meet up with me. I agreed and we meet over at Jurong at night cause i need to attend my friend's rewang first before meeting him. Our first meeting was describe-less, cause when i first met him, he was drunk. He told me to chill over at his place, but i choose not to cause i was afraid he might do something funny to me since he was drunk. I asked him to chill over at my area instead and he agreed. So, we chilled, shared stories (mostly about his life), and went home only the next day. Througout our conversation, dia ada sound i jadi girlfriend dia. Dia ckp yg ex i tk deserve i and dia ada janji i yg dia akan jage i. I just ignore him cause i thought he wasnt aware of what he's saying since he's drunk.
We started to get close and we started going out together. At first, i tktau yg dia nie those flirtish type of guys cause mula2 i kenal dia, dia cakap i tkkn pandang lelaki mcm dia psl dia tkde rupa. So, i thought he was like those guys who dont go for looks or those type who doesnt flirts. Time i slalu jumpa dia, he will always keep himself busy messaging i dont know who. If i asked, he says it was his guyfriend. Takkan message lelaki sampai banyak gitu? Until one day, i viewed back his Tagged and i browsed through his pictures, and i saw one picture (a girl kissing his cheek), and his Tagged status was Married. I looked through his comments, and this girl who looks exactly like the girl on the picture, send him a love song. Then, i realised something. He just added this girl after he added me and tk sampai sebulan dorang kenal, dorang da attached. Cause i still remember, when he first added me, i send him a Tag and he has only 2 or 3 comments, but none of those comments were from that girl.
Maybe da jodoh dorang. Tk sampai sebulan kenal da go steady. I text my friend cause i thought i wanna say congrats to him. But instead, he deny the fact that he's attached and he created different stories. He told me that the girl was his 'ex' and the 'Married' status was only for fun. Bile dia ckp gitu, i terigt yg dia pernah ckp yg dia da setahun lebih single. I asked him about him being single for about a year and why now put that picture, he told me yg dia rindukn ex dia and that was only for fun. He told me that if i regard him as my friend, i have to believe him and trust him. Which i did not do so. Yelah, org yg kurang pandai jer akan percaya bile dia da nampak dgn mata kepala dia sendiri. I decided to konon nye percayakn dia, and i wanted to see how long he can play this game with me.
Few days after that, i received a call from him. He really spoiled my mood cause i was out shopping on that day. So, i took this chance and i asked him again. After giving him much pressure, i raised my voice sampai org semue tengok, baru dia mengaku. I tanya dia kenape dia buat i mcm gitu, and dia ckp dia tknk sakitkn hati i. Kenape dia takut nk bilang i the truth sedangkn i nie cume kwn dia? Bukannye i nie girlfriend dia. Bila dia mengaku, i mcm kesiankn girlfriend dia. Da attached tapi masih mengaku single dgn org lain. I have the thinking of this is between him and his girlfriend, so i eventually ignored everything.
Lepas da lame dia tk contact i, tibe2 dia text i. I tanya dia pasal girlfriend dia, and dia bilang i yg dorang da break. Im shocked. Why the sudden break up? And he told me yg girlfriend dia tk tahan dgn perangai dia yg mcm s@#%. I cuma ketawakn dia and i told him he really deserve that cause that is what he gets for flirting around. But in the same time, i kinda pity him cause he sound so disappointed. I cheered him up and i told him that i will meet him to talk things out with him. So we met at his place, cause he just came back from camp, and chilled at his house. Bile tgh chill tu, i tanya dia face to face cause i believed that its easier to communicate in face to face situation cause by that way, i can only know whether he's lying or not. Tapi bila i berbual dgn dia, no chances that he's lying to me. So i take that as he's not lying to me.
After chilling at his house, we decided to go Town since it was so boring slacking at his place. Time dekat Town tu, kite ada mkn dkt Burger King. Dia ada berkenan dgn satu Minah keje situ. Time tgh nk mkn, dia asyik tengokkn tu Minah. Dari main mata, dorang main senyum2. I pn irritated sampai i ckp kalau da berkenan i blh mintakkn. Dia cabar i mintakkn number Minah tu cause dia igtkkn i tk berani, and i pun mintak. I know this sounds stupid, but since he just broke off, why not? Lepas makan, he sent me home and throughout the journey in the bus, i sengaja testing dia. I tanya dia kenape dia tknk matair dgn i, and dia ckp yg dia blm ready and takut dia tkde time untuk i. Dia ckp yg dia takut i tkle tahan dgn perangai dia mcm 'ex' dia tu. Dalam hati i, dia ckp dia blm ready tapi tk sampai sebulan kenal dgn 'ex' dia, dorang da matair. I pun buat bodoh and just berbual macam biasa dgn dia.
Until yesterday, 20th January 2010. I just finished texting with him cause i told him i just found myself a job and planning to go out with him during his birthday since his birthday was around the corner. Dia ckp dgn i yg dia demam and dia nk tido. I pulak nk tido tapi tkle tido. So, i went online and started to blog-hopping until i ended up with someone's blog (it was a girl). Since i was bored, i read her post cause to me its all interesting and i came across my friend at one of her post. Rupe2nye, i tgh bace blog yg the girl yg i nampak dkt Tagged my friend tu. They are still together and i got to know its gonna be their first monthsary in a few more days. Im utterly disappointed with my friend. He dared lying to me for more than once because of his status. This is what i get after regarding him as my good friend. I straight away text him on the night itself telling him how disappointed i am with him. I waited for his reply and until today, dia tk reply. I bilang dia yg i da tau the truth and there's no way dia blh tipu i lagi pasal i da bace blog girlfriend dia. I mcm ada hati nk bilang girlfriend dia tapi i tknk pulak psl nie dorang gaduh. Lagi2 i tau girlfriend dia tu sakit and nk kena go for an operation. Nampak sangat my friend nie da takut sebab tu dia tk reply my message.
I knew my friend's girlfriend is a reader of ur blog. But i dont have the intention of comdenming her or her boyfriend down. I just wanna share my experience with all the readers of ur blog so that they can be much more aware of this kind of Mats in the future, or if they are in contact with any of this kind of Mats now. I really hope that u will published my story cause i dont want more girls to be any of this kind of Mats victim or end up like me.
Awwwww. i feel this girl. I seriously wanted to publish her story earlier but yeah, im sorry darling but at least your story did get published in TypicalMATsays right?
To all you handsome and beautiful readers out there, please feel me right now. Lying about your status won't bring you any good. In fact it brings chaos and a lot of turmoil in feelings. I mean if you are attached and declare yourself as single are you telling us that you are ashamed that you are in a relationship or is your girlfriend or your Mat is toooooooooooooooooooo ugly to be your partner?
So please eh, time lambat lah sayang oi nak timmer.
XOXO
Wow, i didn't expect you guys really do come everyday to typicalMATsays and wanting me to keep updating this blog, like 2 post a day? alahai, kasi lah hamba chance, hamba kerja tao. ok. But i promise you people on thing, i'll update as often as possible.
Anyway, today post is written by one of our readers who wants to share with you beautiful people out there about this Mat.
HEY I AM ATTACHED BUT SINGLE.
(jgn nak senyum eh mat-mat yang tengah bace)
From: __________________________
Sent: 22 January 2010 17: 35PM
To: knowyourmats@hotmail.com
Hello there! I wanna share my experience with all of the readers out there. This is about my own friend, whom i have known him for about a month plus. Yes, i know our friendship isnt that long, but many things had happened throughout our one month friendship.
I remembered clearly. I get to know my friend at Tagged and this happened on 18 December, which is just a month ago. From Tagged, we chatted over at MSN, and after MSN, we exchanged number with each other so we can keep in touch. At first, this friend of mine turns out to be sweet, and he gave me lots of advices cause at that point of time, my ex just dumped me. Ala, nie semue standard. Baru kenal mestilah sweet kn? Mane ade org baru kenal terus nk tunjuk perangai tk perlu dorang?
Few days after that, he told that he wanna meet up with me. I agreed and we meet over at Jurong at night cause i need to attend my friend's rewang first before meeting him. Our first meeting was describe-less, cause when i first met him, he was drunk. He told me to chill over at his place, but i choose not to cause i was afraid he might do something funny to me since he was drunk. I asked him to chill over at my area instead and he agreed. So, we chilled, shared stories (mostly about his life), and went home only the next day. Througout our conversation, dia ada sound i jadi girlfriend dia. Dia ckp yg ex i tk deserve i and dia ada janji i yg dia akan jage i. I just ignore him cause i thought he wasnt aware of what he's saying since he's drunk.
We started to get close and we started going out together. At first, i tktau yg dia nie those flirtish type of guys cause mula2 i kenal dia, dia cakap i tkkn pandang lelaki mcm dia psl dia tkde rupa. So, i thought he was like those guys who dont go for looks or those type who doesnt flirts. Time i slalu jumpa dia, he will always keep himself busy messaging i dont know who. If i asked, he says it was his guyfriend. Takkan message lelaki sampai banyak gitu? Until one day, i viewed back his Tagged and i browsed through his pictures, and i saw one picture (a girl kissing his cheek), and his Tagged status was Married. I looked through his comments, and this girl who looks exactly like the girl on the picture, send him a love song. Then, i realised something. He just added this girl after he added me and tk sampai sebulan dorang kenal, dorang da attached. Cause i still remember, when he first added me, i send him a Tag and he has only 2 or 3 comments, but none of those comments were from that girl.
Maybe da jodoh dorang. Tk sampai sebulan kenal da go steady. I text my friend cause i thought i wanna say congrats to him. But instead, he deny the fact that he's attached and he created different stories. He told me that the girl was his 'ex' and the 'Married' status was only for fun. Bile dia ckp gitu, i terigt yg dia pernah ckp yg dia da setahun lebih single. I asked him about him being single for about a year and why now put that picture, he told me yg dia rindukn ex dia and that was only for fun. He told me that if i regard him as my friend, i have to believe him and trust him. Which i did not do so. Yelah, org yg kurang pandai jer akan percaya bile dia da nampak dgn mata kepala dia sendiri. I decided to konon nye percayakn dia, and i wanted to see how long he can play this game with me.
Few days after that, i received a call from him. He really spoiled my mood cause i was out shopping on that day. So, i took this chance and i asked him again. After giving him much pressure, i raised my voice sampai org semue tengok, baru dia mengaku. I tanya dia kenape dia buat i mcm gitu, and dia ckp dia tknk sakitkn hati i. Kenape dia takut nk bilang i the truth sedangkn i nie cume kwn dia? Bukannye i nie girlfriend dia. Bila dia mengaku, i mcm kesiankn girlfriend dia. Da attached tapi masih mengaku single dgn org lain. I have the thinking of this is between him and his girlfriend, so i eventually ignored everything.
Lepas da lame dia tk contact i, tibe2 dia text i. I tanya dia pasal girlfriend dia, and dia bilang i yg dorang da break. Im shocked. Why the sudden break up? And he told me yg girlfriend dia tk tahan dgn perangai dia yg mcm s@#%. I cuma ketawakn dia and i told him he really deserve that cause that is what he gets for flirting around. But in the same time, i kinda pity him cause he sound so disappointed. I cheered him up and i told him that i will meet him to talk things out with him. So we met at his place, cause he just came back from camp, and chilled at his house. Bile tgh chill tu, i tanya dia face to face cause i believed that its easier to communicate in face to face situation cause by that way, i can only know whether he's lying or not. Tapi bila i berbual dgn dia, no chances that he's lying to me. So i take that as he's not lying to me.
After chilling at his house, we decided to go Town since it was so boring slacking at his place. Time dekat Town tu, kite ada mkn dkt Burger King. Dia ada berkenan dgn satu Minah keje situ. Time tgh nk mkn, dia asyik tengokkn tu Minah. Dari main mata, dorang main senyum2. I pn irritated sampai i ckp kalau da berkenan i blh mintakkn. Dia cabar i mintakkn number Minah tu cause dia igtkkn i tk berani, and i pun mintak. I know this sounds stupid, but since he just broke off, why not? Lepas makan, he sent me home and throughout the journey in the bus, i sengaja testing dia. I tanya dia kenape dia tknk matair dgn i, and dia ckp yg dia blm ready and takut dia tkde time untuk i. Dia ckp yg dia takut i tkle tahan dgn perangai dia mcm 'ex' dia tu. Dalam hati i, dia ckp dia blm ready tapi tk sampai sebulan kenal dgn 'ex' dia, dorang da matair. I pun buat bodoh and just berbual macam biasa dgn dia.
Until yesterday, 20th January 2010. I just finished texting with him cause i told him i just found myself a job and planning to go out with him during his birthday since his birthday was around the corner. Dia ckp dgn i yg dia demam and dia nk tido. I pulak nk tido tapi tkle tido. So, i went online and started to blog-hopping until i ended up with someone's blog (it was a girl). Since i was bored, i read her post cause to me its all interesting and i came across my friend at one of her post. Rupe2nye, i tgh bace blog yg the girl yg i nampak dkt Tagged my friend tu. They are still together and i got to know its gonna be their first monthsary in a few more days. Im utterly disappointed with my friend. He dared lying to me for more than once because of his status. This is what i get after regarding him as my good friend. I straight away text him on the night itself telling him how disappointed i am with him. I waited for his reply and until today, dia tk reply. I bilang dia yg i da tau the truth and there's no way dia blh tipu i lagi pasal i da bace blog girlfriend dia. I mcm ada hati nk bilang girlfriend dia tapi i tknk pulak psl nie dorang gaduh. Lagi2 i tau girlfriend dia tu sakit and nk kena go for an operation. Nampak sangat my friend nie da takut sebab tu dia tk reply my message.
I knew my friend's girlfriend is a reader of ur blog. But i dont have the intention of comdenming her or her boyfriend down. I just wanna share my experience with all the readers of ur blog so that they can be much more aware of this kind of Mats in the future, or if they are in contact with any of this kind of Mats now. I really hope that u will published my story cause i dont want more girls to be any of this kind of Mats victim or end up like me.
Awwwww. i feel this girl. I seriously wanted to publish her story earlier but yeah, im sorry darling but at least your story did get published in TypicalMATsays right?
To all you handsome and beautiful readers out there, please feel me right now. Lying about your status won't bring you any good. In fact it brings chaos and a lot of turmoil in feelings. I mean if you are attached and declare yourself as single are you telling us that you are ashamed that you are in a relationship or is your girlfriend or your Mat is toooooooooooooooooooo ugly to be your partner?
So please eh, time lambat lah sayang oi nak timmer.
XOXO
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