There is only one way to let a Mat know he doesn't control you.

Advice from TypicalMATsays: You SHOW your Mat.

Talking, crying, writing, pouting, yelling, screaming, do not work.

The only way to not be controlled to is take control! As soon as you stand up for yourself and don't give your power away, your Mat will get the message.

The question I have though, is why do you want your Mat who has issues with control? Mat with power and control issues are not great in personality, at least for me.

Women like you, you and you tend to forgive, to make things work, to want to please. These are great traits in some circumstances. They are not great qualities if it means you are feeling controlled by your Mat. No no, it means danger. You can wait and see till one fine day your girlfriends will start calling you 'Dahi ader cap'.

Every single on of you deserve a healthy relationship filled with respect, equality, support, and love. You are not a child or servant.

Never let a Mat like these control you and overthrow you.

XOXO